Wondering why "everyone" has a special someone today and you don't? I'd love to tell you! Buckle up your seat belts, kids.
1. You're Probably Trying Too Hard
If you're constantly LOOKING for someone to date, then you're probably never going to FIND someone to date. Yeah. For real. If you meet people and are just trying to see if they could be your next boyfriend or girlfriend, then you're not actually seeing them for who they are as a person. You're just seeing them for what they can bring to your life, and that is super obvious and super annoying. Knock it off!
2. You're Probably Really Annoying
I have two, semi-subconscious lists in my head: "Girl's I'll Never Date" and "Girls I Haven't Decided I Wouldn't Date". If you're super annoying, especially about relationships and how "boys suck" and how you're "so lonely", you probably hold a strong spot on that first list. That crap is annoying. If you think retweeting Drake is going to make your ex change his/her mind and date you again, you are wrong, and kinda stupid. A Poem:
Roses are Red
Violets are Blue
Holy crap you're annoying
I'm hiding you on Facebook
"Whatever! Who says I want to date you anyway??" -Random female reader that this part totally applies to.
3. You Have Standards
Maybe you actually like your life. Maybe you realize you're worth something, even if you're not in a monogamous relationship. Maybe you have a life you love and passions you pursue. Maybe you realize God loves you and has an awesome plan for your life and can use you in HUGE ways, even if you're not in a relationship. Maybe you're willing to date someone when it's right, but realize you have a good life, single or taken, and are going to wait until you meet the person who challenges you and brings out the best in you and makes you want to be a better person.
If that's you, you win.
If you're looking for a relationship for what you get, you lose.
That's why no one getting married says that they're getting someone's life. No, they're giving theirs. That's what it's about. True Love is being willing to give up your own happiness for the other person, and until you're happy as a single person, you won't be able to do that. So...fix yo' self.
VALENTINE HAMSTER!
Don't you kinda want to kiss his face a little? No? Yeah me neither. SMOOCH.
